Finding Strength and Hope: My Journey Through Cancer and Loss

I previously shared my journey with cancer in a 2019 social media post, and now that October, a month dedicated to Breast Cancer Awareness, has passed, I felt led to recap my journey on this platform and reflect more on everything that happened since that post.

Cancer—the word alone carries so much weight. It’s a disease that’s difficult to accept, painful to endure, and heartbreaking to witness in someone you love. Believe me, I understand this all too well, having experienced it from both sides.

As we closed out Breast Cancer Awareness Month, I wanted to encourage anyone who had been affected by this illness, whether personally or through a loved one.

For Those Facing the Battle:

 In 1997 I was diagnosed with breast cancer. As you can imagine, it was one of the most terrifying moments of my life. Fear took hold of me the moment I received the diagnosis—fear of surgery, of reconstruction, of chemotherapy, of the toll it would take on my family. I was scared of the doctors, the hospital, the overwhelming medical bills, and yes, I even feared losing my hair. Fear threatened to consume me, but today I can stand and shout out..."I will give thanks to You, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made." - Psalm 139:14 

Looking back, I realize that cancer doesn’t just attack the body; it comes with a heavy weight of fear attached to it. The physical battle is intense, but the emotional battle against fear can be just as hard.
One of the best ways to fight that fear is to surround yourself with people who love and support you. I would not have made it through without the incredible support system I was blessed with. My husband, my daughters, (young as they were back then) my parents, my extended family and friends were my rock. I was never alone, I had a dear friend Kay, who never missed a single chemotherapy session, family members who tended to my wounds daily, and others who helped me focus on the positives in life. The Cancer Association and my church community were there every step of the way lifting me up in prayer.

This wonderful group of people helped me break the journey down into manageable steps instead of trying to take in the overwhelming whole. Slowly, day by day, I began to walk the path of healing. My focus shifted from fear to hope, and one step at a time, I began to regain my strength and confidence. My cancer journey highlighted the significance of surrounding oneself with love, care, and support. I feel fortunate to have had an incredible network who helped me navigate the emotional ups and downs. Their presence was a valuable reminder of the power of love and support.



Now, 27 years after my diagnosis, I stand here today, in October 2024, only by God’s grace.

My message to you is simple: I urge you: prioritize your health and get screened. A simple check-up can change everything. Please, follow recommended tests and prioritize early detection – it's vital for your well-being and better outcomes.